Most of us are too busy feeling butterflies or planning outfits or composing text messages in the early days of relationships to consider much else. But there are certain things you should do at the start of every new relationship – things that will help to ensure that the vibe between you and your partner starts on the right foot, and continues in an orderly and fabulous fashion.

Bustle asked experts for the one thing that they would suggest that you make sure to do at the outset of a relationship, and the results were varied. One thing is for sure, though: Strong, healthy, long-term relationships don’t just happen: They take diligence, awareness and a definite sense of being present and in the moment.

When all else fails, a smart dose of honesty and open-mindedness goes a long way when you’re first getting to know someone. A nice pinch of vulnerability does wonders too. But in the end, whether you follow this expert’s advice or that one’s doesn’t matter so much. Just find a suggestion that works for you, and give it a try. It certainly can’t hurt, and it might make your new partnership just a little more smooth-sailing.

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